It's that time of the year again, Christmas in 2019.
How many years have gone by celebrating Christmas?
I wish everypne a very Merry Christmas, may it be filled with joy, good food and some (memorable) gifts. For all the unresolved conflict we may cross, may we take a minute to think, is this worth my energy to be sad, mad, upset about? What if I just showed the other person that I'm ok and not feeling upset. How do I deal with the same people year after year? Simply tell them you have something important to say and talk on the side if needed. We always have an option to make change. The most important thing is to be sincere and have intention with what you choose to do, a fake reconcile will not help you or anyone else. We all sin and have regrets.
You can read here that many people just accept their own view as the correct one and it really (quietly) ends up hurting them.